How to Ask Out a Guy

How to Ask Out a Guy

Some pretty girls often try to take an unapproachable look trying to be on the high ropes for guys. However, in most cases such girls have no boyfriends, as guys pay no attention to them. In fact, guys like communicative, cheerful and simple girls, as it is easier to talk to them. They are afraid of being rejected, that is why they don’t even try to make the acquaintance of such “unapproachable” ladies or just talk to them even if these ladies are rather attractive.

What should you do if you see that a guy likes you, if he is looking at you with amorous look but does not dare to come up to you? There is nothing for it, and you have to take initiative and probably ask out him. So, below you will find some useful tips on how to ask out a guy.

·      How to ask out a guy: Tip 1. Think about possible rejection

Before you actually make the first step, think that failure and rejection is not something impossible. What if he refuses to go out? Probably, you will not be able to hide your chagrin and find yourself in an awkward situation. In any risk you have to be ready for any emergency. Yet, remember, the “he who doesn’t risk, never gets to drink champagne!” 

·      How to ask out a guy: Tip 2. Think what to say and how to say it

So, you have decided to ask out a guy. First and foremost, you have to think what you are going to say and how you are going to say it. It is extremely important to think about it beforehand, otherwise, you again may find yourself in a funny and awkward situation like saying “Hi!” and then standing speechless or mumbling something.

·      How to ask out a guy: Tip 3. Choose an appropriate time to talk to him about it

Don’t come up to him to ask him out when he is with his friends. Talk to him face-to-face. It is also important to let him listen to you when he is disturbed with something else. If you see, that he is busy with some important affairs or he has an upset look, it is better to wait for a more favorable time.

·      How to ask out a guy: Tip 4. Try to talk in a calm voice

Of course, it’s not going to be easy for you, and most likely, you will be worried. Actually, the most difficult thing is to make the first step by coming up to him and start talking. However, as you step over it and start talking, everything will be fine. What is more important is that you should not be obsessed with the idea of possible rejection. Take it as a game. If you are rejected, it does not mean the boy does not like you. He might be afraid of serious relationship.

·      How to ask out a guy: Tip 5. Don’t ask your female friend to do it for you

You will make a huge mistake if you do so. Firstly, you will put yourself under the threat of looking stupid. Just imagine. A girl comes up to a boy and says, “My friend likes you very much. Could you please go out with her?” The guy will certainly be surprised and ask her why you cannot do it by yourself. Seems rather silly, doesn’t it? Secondly, there is a possibility that the guy will ask out your friend instead of you.

Remember, attractive appearance is not as important as personality. That is why you have to develop your personal qualities if you want to be an object of guys’ admiration, and the tips on how to ask out a guy mentioned above will certainly help you do it.

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